The game closes itself when joining a match

Interesting observation, and I like the way you're thinking looking for commonalities, I am grateful for any and all assistance that can be provided.

So here's the weird part.....when I click on Check for Updates through Windows, it says I'm all up to date.  When I click on HP Support Assistant, it says there are no updates.  I do not know why my system isn't seeing the 1809 as an option.  I know there was an issue with it and a re-roll out earlier this month.  A couple of the resources I found said that it would be available "if your system is compatible", is that just generic meaningless language or should I infer my system isn't compatible for some reason.  I have searched and found a few 1809 versions of windows updates, a cumulative update and a security update, not sure if I should manually attempt to download them or not.  I use this computer primarily for my small business so I don't want to risk it going down.  I'm just perplexed it doesn't see it when I do Check for Updates, that was one of the first things I did last night as basic troubleshooting.