WRONG TEAM PENALIZED

whenever a kicking team does an onside kick and it goes out of bounds before the 10yd mark a flag is thrown and they penalize the returning team. They move the kickoff up to the returning teams 40yd line and they get to kick off again. This is a major issue. 
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Xbox series X 9/16 7pm