[SPOILERS] Female romance options

I really don't have time to save-spam and check it all, so here I am for your experiences.

SPOILERS AHEAD!!

This game caught this strange trend of every single female being a wh... erm, poly-amorous. Maybe this is also true for males, but I'm not interested in romancing male characters.

Bellara brags about her ex-es from the get-go, thanks but no.

Taash is a bit disturbing. She is supposed to be barely adult (judging from her relationship with mother and also this whole concept of the growing up and "discovering yourself"), despite that, she instantly brags about how she "USUALLY" likes it. This should be barely legal in some countries, but it is what it is, not my cup of tea.

I haven't tried Neve, but she is depicted as an older experienced woman, so I don't have any hopes for her.

What about Harding? Should I try romancing her?

I miss DA:O and DA where you had options like Merrill. In BG3 this was even worse, but at least Karlach wasn't bragging about her ex-es. I haven't romanced anyone in Inquisition, nobody was attractive to me so I don't know if there were options I'd like.

P.S. I understand most of the characters are grown-ups (Taash??) and have their previous live and experiences, so expecting them to be "innocent" maybe too much to ask. But I'd like for them to at least NOT throw their previous sexual life in my face.

P.S.2 same with alcohol. In most recent RPGs you always have an option to refuse. In DA:V you characters suggest drinking alco themselves without any option at all in conversations you cannot control! All these are small choices, but they're still important for immersion in a game where you get 3 dialogue options like "1. Yes; 2. Ok; 3. No doubt!".