Its good to see folks having the same issues I have had.
Ultimately for me it's a vibe thing. The interception volume, the wild inaccuracy, and the general vibe of the game feels off. User defense is either ridiculously easy or flat out impossible. Offense feels like a crap shoot, and there are routes I just don't even bother with as they never work.
We all want difficulty, and no one wants to go 17-0, that's not a challenge, that's not fun.
Some of us genuinely want a simulation experience, and play on longer quarters.
I'm hopeful that EA could figure this out.