I have the worst connection to the madden servers

The new madden is so slow for me and it slaps kicks me out of games. I have the new Xbox series s and the menus take at least 10 seconds to switch between each other. I thought it was just like this, but my friend said his wasn’t slow at all. Also whenever I’m in a game I just randomly get kicked off of ea servers. I get put back in the main menu and being told to sign in to EA servers again. This has happened multiple times and I have videos of it.