Just so everybody knows this post is almost correct.
I had the black loading screen and had tried everything before coming to this page, what worked for me was to turn off all narrative options in the menu causing the game to choose my options for me. It auto made me tell Anderson that I was ready, then skipped the "scene" with Ashley and loaded me straight into the scene where EDI told me she was coming through.
Super Easy fix so I will now repost the fix.
1. Load savegame before going to the Chronos station (Cerberus Headquarters).
2. Turn off Full Decisions in the Narrative options.
3. Automatically tell Anderson that you're ready to go.
4. Instead of a black screen there is now the proper cinematic and the game works as it's supposed to.
(Full decisions can be turned on again after you land on the Cerberus Station if you like.)
