So, I'm going to preface this by saying I only played half a season as goalie in BaP, basically because of this exact problem.
No matter what I set the sliders to, I couldn't get the other team to shoot on me. My team would be super pro, cycling and stuff for super long times, and then the other team would come into our zone and get immediately picked off or just not shooting at all even when they had opportunities.
I can say, if you want to stick to it, up the difficulty slightly, and the 'aggressiveness' slider- I believe that's in the checking section. It makes them go after the puck more aggressively when your team has possession, and it seems to up their wish to shoot on goal a bit more, as does upping the difficulty.
To offset that, you can change the human goalie sliders to give you a boost, or slow down the CPU passing/shooting sliders. I had issues where one-timers were basically so fast as to be unseeable, but slowing down pass speed helped a lot with that.
Unfortunately, it just got boring. I really wanted to enjoy it, but the lack of shooting and minutes on end of doing absolutely nothing eventually made me stop, but my suggestions above made it a bit better. Good luck!