Please turn it off!

I'm tired of watching and waiting for someone who doesn't know or don't want to play and join an online game!!!  incredibly frustrating!!!   Wait 1 minute between breaks + wait for someone to take a break or watch repeated events 3 times the same thing!!!   Give a maximum of 5 seconds!!!  , that's enough.  I don't understand what people have in their heads, why they look around, why there is such a long intermission.  I want to play and not wait!!!