How to exit city wars- it is horrible!

If you just wait till war is over, city will repair itself. I feel pain too, I downloaded a build t game, not a war game and my club members irritate me with when is next war boss? I would love to say never. Then they don' do what you want, no teamwork, there going off bombing on there own, getting bombed, I'm so tired of it. Or, you can sell the war items too. Good luck, I have seen No war club out there