Re: How to exit city wars- it is horrible!
Unfortunately, if you are in a club that participates in wars you are stuck with it. So look for Clubs that do not participate in a war and you should be fine. Even if one club member starts a war you are stuck with war. So if you do start your own club that does not do wars, make sure none of the members are promoted to a level about member because a senior member and above can initiate wars.
I feel your pain, I hate the wars too, utterly stupid to call it "SimCity BuildIt" Build after the bombing? Call it, SIMCITY BOMB IT!!!