It's a good game but I can't change from female to male.

you had one shot at doing this at the beginning, if you missed out you missed out.

i think the beginning was only presets, you can just change your body type and chest size and pick a more masculine face. If you want to switch back you can do the opposite. I think the beginning was just a preset of those settings.

I think the character building and presets do need some work though