Updating this post. If anyone knows of a different tool, hope you will post about it. But I was able to locate the recolor for end table, (by searching windows) thank goodness HolySimoly always named recolors to match the object, and or put in the description of an object it would have it's recolors tied to a different object such as the chest of drawers or bed etc. But it's not so easy to run these down when the creator fails to put in the description of the object flashing blue in the buymode, that it is the slave of an object and needs the master object or package file before it would work.
Normally all my cc was in folders and devided that way but as I said I was trying just to install the least amount of cc I liked that were actually used in my lots and or on my Sims so this is a chore, I really didn't need 50+ door recolors etc. just the right one. Because if I only install back in the cc on my lots I packaged then I go down to less than 1GB of cc instead of the 4.5-13.5GBs :D But need to learn how to find the right recolor number for the MD5 number to match the object.