Balancing a family with rabbit hole/non-rabbit hole careers

I found it much easier to have one sim in a non-rabbithole career. But it's doable to have one that works in the daytime (i.e. stylist, firefighter, etc.) and one that works at night (i.e. performances for the higher level Showtime careers and the ghost hunter career). Particularly with the performance careers, your household can maintain their relationship by attending the performances, even though they're never at home at the same time