I just wanted to comment that I really like what you've accomplished and the tweaks you've made to the challenge. I had a lot of fun coming up with it and have changed a few things along the way as well. I have to agree about the deceased spouses though - in my personal game I had to leave them all behind due to game issues that popped up.
Sorry to hear about your crashes and setbacks but you seem to be moving along - my major issues really didn't hit until Starlight Shores but that's all cleared up now. Hope you are still enjoying the challenge and will keep reading as you post!
Here's a shot of my Brandon during his final performance and at home with three of his four kids!
https://i.imgur.com/dmqFZxp.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/s57sHGM.jpg
