@SimplyJen Thank you :) Both the boys look good as females (all my sims get the gender-switch test ;) ). The house probably wouldn't be too overstuffed because I am trying to limit myself to two kids since the lifespan is so short but of course I have been failing dismally so far and allowed both generations to have 3 kids ;)
Elspet would have female-only sliders but that was only to ensure that her nose wasn't too small. I don't like large noses on my males and the corresponding female nose is barely a nub without the sliders.