So after playing a bunch of legacy families that get tied up in having children and don't have much time left to go ot on the town, I started a new character in Isla Paradiso with the goal of living large and exploring the island without getting tied down to a family. Well, then I quickly remembered how convenient it was to have a married sim who can easily max out their fun with a single woohoo. I promptly took my sim to the park to pick up a hottie. In walks one of the most attractive sims I've ever seen. My sim picks this guy up like a champ and even convinces him to leave his current partner. 2 game weeks later, they get hitched... and then I find out he has 4 kids already, including a toddler! I promptly abandoned that game and haven't been back since... there's no such thing as living large with a toddler, 2 kids, and a teenager in tow!