Thanks for the wonderful comments @bebasim <3 What an amazing catch up! I have been playing this family a lot so have been updating once or twice a day!
As beautiful as Elspet is, I don't do female heirs. The choice will be between Fife and Euan. Mikezumi is the only female sim I can play without wanting to kill her. Says something about me but I am not sure I want to know ;)
I really don't like lobster. Give me a good, meaty crab any day!
I actually like the look of Connor as an elder but I have always had a soft spot for elders.
My Don is quite heavily tweaked, as are my Connor and Jared and any townie I might steal for my saves. I tweak them because I need to be sure that they will produce good looking kids of either gender. Some really handsome sims are a fright when you do a gender switch on them :o It's not so bad now that I have gender specific sliders. I can make tweaks that don't affect the male version. I always had a problem with how small female noses are when the male's nose is just a normal sized one or how weak a females jaw becomes unless the male has a large jaw.
Thanks again for the lovely comments :)