@jillbg - I wasn't criticizing your party suggestion/advice please don't take it that way. It's good advice for those who play with those elements. My opening sentences were actually poking a bit of fun at the fact you said "you don't even have to talk to everyone or feed them", that's all. I had hoped my usage of the double question marks would have made my sentences read a bit more light-heartedly with a sense of 'hmmmm??' humor and in a less serious tone. Going by your response, you clearly didn't interpret or perceive what I had written in the manner in which it was intended. So to clarify, my response wasn't meant to be taken seriously.
I play with the Sim's learning AI, seeing how it can be influenced, manipulated and guided. The results of what they learn is shown through their autonomous behavior which is why I mention the massive amounts of screenshots I take and said "I could never pull off a coded party" that was about my playstyle and had nothing to do with your advice. As far as 'The Cup of Tea' is concerned, I know Simmers who bypass parties altogether simply because it doesn't interest them. Again, not a critique of your playstyle or a statement against your advice, just a general acknowledgement that not all Simmers care about parties.