I don't get this with the tombstone's. I thought deleting the tombstone deletes the sims from the stone. After a Sim dies the sim dies forever after the end of the ghost cycle? I am so confused.
Yes I don't know either. If you don't want ghosts in your game, you need to go to edit town and bulldoze the property with the tombstones. Wit The Sims 2 we could just sell them. Two steps back!