EDIT (Crin) This thread has become a bit of a collection thread, so I'm going to summarize the current issues On rotational game play, Sims are completely removed from the Sims panel (this is by design) Relationship decays very fast (This has gotten worse since the June 2nd patch Original Post: Spoiler (Highlight to read)Every sim day, my child sim goes to the park, meets tons of other child sims and sometimes even makes a friend or two. The next morning, when she wakes up, her contact list is empty except for her own family.Every sim day, my child sim goes to the park, meets tons of other child sims and sometimes even makes a friend or two. The next morning, when she wakes up, her contact list is empty except for her own family.

Hi Crin! Adding a "me too" on this.Sims are completely forgetting they ever met anyone who wasn't at least friend level or a relative. All the forgetting happens while I'm playing another households. I haven't tracked it yet to see if there's a particular time of the week that it's happening - tonight is the first time I noticed the forgetting part.I've also had Sims develop sudden full-on friendships while I'm rotated away, even if I've not seen those Sims be together - or be at all - in the surroundings when I'm playing another household. And I had one sudden enmity with that too, between Sims who hadn't met or been seen at all while I was playing other Sims. I'm not sure if it's related or not, but it adds to the frustration with what's happening with acquaintances.

I'm playing rotational, and since installing Get Together I too have noticed relationships disappearing. I thought it was strange when my Sims got the option to introduce themselves to someone they were definitely already acquainted with. Now I see I'm not the only one... I'm on Mac OS X (Yosemite), all expansions and packs, no mods or CC.

There are two mod fixes for this now: MC Command Center No Relationship Culling Passing this along since I saw a mod fix listed on a different bug post regarding dishes. I can confirm MC Command Center gets rid of this problem completely. EDIT (crin) Removed mods links. Please do not post mod links here.

Hello,When My sim goes to bed I lose almost all relations ships I have with other Sims.They will just all dissapear from my contact list... Sometimes I make 2-3 friends in one day, when I go to bed they go away from my contact list

If she's not in the households anymore, you have this issue: http://answers.ea.com/t5/The-Sims-4-Bug-Reports/Common-Disappearing-Sims/td-p/3630991

[ARCHIVE] Relationships get lost (aka Relationship Culling)

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Anonymous
11 years ago
My Sims forget everyone they met every day when they go to bed. This is making it pretty difficult for them to develop friendships, get married, or get promoted in careers that require a certain amount of friends. This just started happening over the weekend (9/6-7). I've downloaded all updates, ran "repair game", and uninstalled and reinstalled, but it's still happening.
Any suggestions?
crinrict
Hero+
11 years ago
Added this link to existing issue from old bug thread
Anonymous
11 years ago
Hello,

When My sim goes to bed I lose almost all relations ships I have with other Sims.

They will just all dissapear from my contact list... Sometimes I make 2-3 friends in one day, when I go to bed they go away from my contact list
crinrict
Hero+
11 years ago
Is it just the relationship or do the Sims no longer exist in your wolrd all of a sudden ?
Anonymous
11 years ago
Hello,

The sim still exists in the world.
What happens is that my sim just lose all relationship it had with other sims
crinrict
Hero+
11 years ago
@celani10 Merged with existing thread
Anonymous
11 years ago
Prep Steps: 3rd generation (child of child of original) character. Advance to young adult. After most of that time is exhausted, apply potion of youth. Repeat.
Problem: Making new friends causes them to appear on the relationship tab. However, between 2AM-3AM (Game clock), those friends all disappear. Does not cause family members to disappear.
Tester info: I suspect there is a state bug in the relationship subsystem that is causing this problem once two potions of youth have been applied
Attempted corrections: Saved and restarted game. Rebooted PC. Problem remains.
Environment, PC, Windows7, English (North America)
crinrict
Hero+
11 years ago
@thekarmikbob Merged your post into existing bug report.
Anonymous
11 years ago
My child sim has an aspiration to be friends with 5 other children. As they can't meet other children in school in 4, I've sent her to the park several times and had her introduce herself to several other children. She interacts with them for a while, builds a relationship, and then when she returns home the relationships are gone. I try to call them and they don't show up, and when I click the relationship tab, they aren't there. It's making it impossible to complete this aspiration.
crinrict
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11 years ago
@denofgeekus Merged with existing thread