I have three routing issues that I have noticed only only one of which I have seen above but all 3 have the same issue.
!. The baby is crying. Mom is in the room. I tell her to change its diaper, feed it, whatever. She waves her arms and says she can't. I spot 2 kids and a teen heading for the room all wanting to interact with baby. I have to pause, delete all their queues and quickly tell Mom what to do before unpausing. And hope I didn't miss someone else in the household who wants to help the baby. (8 person family)
2. Someone's bladder is in the red. I send them to the toilet ( or the shower because they are stinky) and they wave their arms and yell . Oh, my someone else is heading for the same bathroom. Easier to resolve than #1 since the house has four bathrooms.
#3 Mentioned above. Someone has been skilling for some time and hunger bar is low. I send her to fridge. Oh, no, she waves her arms. 3 other hungry sims are also heading for the fridge. Since their action was autonomous they are actually able to line up and all get their food, since they didn't arrive at the exact same time. Only the one I directed has to watch
I get sooooo tired of being waved and yelled at.
oh wait, there is another. #4 A sim, directed or autonomously, started clearing dishes from the table. I use no sinks, instead use Nano trash. They gather all the dishes from all surfaces, then somewhere before they get to the trashcan they stop and drop the trash. Then complain about the mess. As does everyone else in the room. I direct them to pick it up. They take two steps and drop it again. I have had a sim drop the trash 4 times before finally getting it in the trashcan. I could swear they are smirking the whole time. Or glaring at me. It can be any age sim doing this.