[BY DESIGN] No 'Wake up' interaction on sleeping/napping sims

Well, then I am out of ideas for the moment. Let's see if anyone else sees this.

Don't think that looking at your save would help as it doesn't seem connected to a specific save game.

EDIT: Could you maybe record a video and upload to youtube (unlisted) then link here ? maybe that can give a clue what's happening.

I can later, I just got to work. But what happens is...

I select a Sim that needs to sleep

Once the sim is my active Sim I click on the bed and the menu comes up with the 'sleep' option

The sleep command goes into the queue and my Sim does the command, they go the bed and sleep

However, once they are asleep, I cant select the sim, putting the mouse on there body/head wont highlight the sim, when I click on the sim nothing happens (though i am able to shift click them and the cheat menu comes up)

Not being able to select the sim while there sleeping means i can't bring up the wake up option, but I'm able to cancel the sleep action in the queue and also select other things around, I also noticed that if I have a second sim in the home, I can switch to that second sim and they can preform the wake up option on the other sim, 

Basically no matter which sim is active, the active sim cannot preform actions/there not selectable while asleep

OK. So maybe that's where the issue lies then. I don't think you should be able to do it with just one Sim. It's the other Sim that wakes the sleeping Sim. If you want to work with just one Sim, you'll need to cancel the interaction like you said.

have you ever had an wake up option with just one Sim ?

EDIT: Just tested this and yes, there is no such option if you don't have a second Sim to wake.