[FIXED] Sims will constantly "Check toddler" & it disturbs gameplay

They need to change the autonomy to check toddler so that when another parent is already interacting with the kid, the other adult won't bother them. Same thing when the toddler is queued up to grab food or is currently eating, the adult should not be autonomously checking the toddler. I appreciate my sims trying to be good parents, but they are hurting more than they are helping. I thought one of my toddlers was going to be taken away because BOTH parents were interrupting the toddler from eating their food. This obsessive picking up/putting down or checking on the toddlers is ABSOLUTELY WHY I can't use highchairs in the game. I find myself screaming at my computer, because my sims will give the toddler food in the highchair, then immediately pick them up and put them down on the floor instead of letting them eat.