I figured it out! Her not liking gardening was keeping her from transforming for some reason lol
that sounds like a bug.
I moved this to the bug forum
Could you please edit your post and add the following info to your post.
Product: The Sims 4
Platform:
Which language are you playing the game in?
How often does the bug occur?
What is your current game version number?
What expansions, game packs, and stuff packs do you have installed?
Steps: How can we find the bug ourselves?
What happens when the bug occurs?
What do you expect to see?
Have you installed any customization with the game, e.g. Custom Content or Mods?
Did this issue appear after a specific patch or change you made to your system?
