[MWS] Roles not showing up

I have a similar issue, but I cant even ask to be flower pal, ring berrer and the likes... no options, it used to be there I cant find it in any menue in friendly category. I checked the other categories and I could not find anything. Also, I tried with both sims and nothing. Both sims are engaged, but I cant remember if I did make them engaged or it was by a phone call advise type of deal. I have too many families and play rotationally so I dont remember, but I know I have several couples in games who are waiting to get married and I tested in many households and none of them can ask other ppl who are close to them or stranger, to be one of those roles...

I used to play in French, but with the recent adds to MWS, no translation and lack of texts in the new options combined with overcomplicated thermes in pie menu made me uninstalled the game, reinstalled in English this time like I used to play. Still after a fresh install and in english version, no options for my sims to ask for the specifics roles for the wedding.

Also, cake does not seems to have options on to be selected as wedding cake. It worked one time for me, but during the wedding day, I tried to click on many dining tables, outside tables and there again, no options to put the cake... I had selected the cake the evening before. A cake my sim made, and I tried with both sims to place the cake, still nothing... I mean all theses tweaks broke the wedding pack for me. All that used to work... not happy.