[OPEN] Check infant/toddler interrupts all attempts to care for baby

I have turned off autonomy but am still having major problems with this same issue and a few other things.

We have twins and if one parent goes to take care of a fussing baby, the other often gets an unfulfilled "Check Infant" or "Hold" for that baby & it will NOT go away, even after repeatedly cancelling it out. Meanwhile baby #2 needs fed or changed and the "free" parent just stands there waiting to hold the first baby, even when he's already been taken care of and put down to nap. This persists even after baby has slept and the next series of care takes place. 

The playmat creates problems for me too -- keeps popping up in the queue constantly, even if other actions are already queued up. Trying to cancel it out usually does not work, and I have to wait for the infant to be put down, then cancel everything and restart what I was trying to do in the first place. I often queue up 5 or 6 actions in order to then start the other parent handling the 2nd baby.

The routing is also a bit strange for giving the infant a bubble bath. Both times I've done this, the parent has taken the baby out of the tub, put him on the floor, then walked to the sofa and sat down before returning to do the next action in the queue.

(This could be because I have a very small but full bathroom, with tub and shower sharing space???)

Also ... after "Blowout" I have had the Sim-parent who's changing the diaper (using changing table) get stuck in the animation for a VERY long time and I cannot cancel out. I've had to use the "reset" a few times on this now, which I really don't like to do. Don't have this problem with normal diaper changes. Does a "blowout" need to be handled differently, perhaps taking the infant directly to a tub or sink to clean up?

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Playing on X-Box-One

V. 1.71+ 

Have pretty much everything except a few stuff packs & some kits.