FFS, years later and it still happens. These infant/toddler issues make me want to quit the game. I tried to raise a family two years ago and had almost these same issues. I quit with the families and started playing no-kid couples and single sims. I falsely thought that maybe they fixed some issues, so I tried a couple of days ago to raise a family. The issues are still here and some are worse. Almost every care I task my sim parents with ends up a cycle of putting down the kid even when they aren't holding it.Then they'll ignore tasks because some autonomous action from a different sim interrupts the task I gave. The "check infant" bug is still around too. I even tried mods to see if it would help and nothing works.
It's really frustrating to deal with this for years on end. The hate for EA is real.
