I added my "me too" though I'm not sure it's a "bug". The autonomous flirting has always been an issue in my game. Regardless, like others who've posted here, I would like the flirting to be toned down. It is excessive and just made worse since sentiments were introduced.
It would be great if...
... conversation interactions excluded flirting for played sims (only available to select manually if desired, especially when game autonomy is switched off).
... conversation interactions excluded flirting by NPCs when sims are in a romantic relationship (unless those sims' relationships include romance or sims have the player trait).
... sims in a romantic relationship rejected flirty interactions (unless the sims' relationships include romance or sims have the player trait).
... there was an option to disable sentiments completely (the flirty moodlets from romantic sentiments are out of control; plus sentiments in general are the bane of my gameplay).
Jeg er enig i den overdrevne flirte ri. Jeg har ligeledes altid haft problemet i mit spil. (Har spillet sims4 siden det udkom.) For længe siden havde jeg en episode (juleaften) manden var pludselig i saunaen med sviger faderen, vupti - fuld romantik. Ødelagt familie. Jeg lukkede spillet ned uden at gemme. Flere spildte spilletimer. Sauna har ikke været i mit hus siden. Dengang havde jeg ikke en juleaften med bedsteforældre på besøg uden en evindelig flirte ri, og serenadesang. Samme flirten også i forhold til børn.
Nuværende er jeg begyndt at afstille deres romantiske interesse inde i LES. Kun interesseret i Juhuu. Når begge parter har de efterfølgende kun 2 interaktioner i romantik. Herefter kan jeg vælge at blive juhuu partnere. Der giver et helt uromantisk, men kærligt forhold. Der kan også vælges "få et barn". Så de kan altså blive forældre. Jeg gør dem til ægtefæller i LES.
Altså ikke flere romantiske bryllupper hos mig.
ALLIGEVEL, selv om bedsteforældre, venner og sågar rancharbejderen har samme indstilling, så hænder det fortsat at de kommer til huset, top romantiske. I vores danske forhold, ville de - i samværet med mine børn - straks blive anholdt for pædofili. Min teenagerdatter blev udsat for en meget kort henvendelse fra en ukendt teenager, der "pustede hjerter" i hovedet på hende, og vupti, havde de fuld romantik. Dette på trods af, at hun ikke var tiltrukket af piger.
Selv om denne indstilling stort set fjerner den daglige flirten, så er den åbenbart så vigtig en del af EA' indstilling til sex/kærlighed, at den ikke kan fjernes. Jeg er fuld af undren, og foragt overfor denne holdning.
Jeg ved der er børn ned til 11-12 års alderen der spiller SIMS. Jeg forstår ikke det ikke bliver stoppet.
Jeg følger opfordringen, her på engelsk.
I agree with the excessive flirting. I have always had the problem in my game as well. (Played sims4 since it came out.) A long time ago I had an episode (Christmas Eve) the husband was suddenly in the sauna with the father-in-law, whoops - full romance. Broken family. I closed the game without saving. More wasted gaming hours. Sauna has not been in my house since. Back then, I didn't have a Christmas Eve with visiting grandparents without constant flirting and serenading. The same flirtation also in relation to children. Currently, I'm starting to settle their romantic interest inside the LES. Only interested in Juhuu. When both parties subsequently have only 2 interactions in romance. After this, I can choose to become juhuu partners. That makes for a completely unromantic, but loving relationship. You can also choose "have a child". So they can become parents. I make them spouses in LES. So no more romantic weddings for me. YET, even though grandparents, friends and even ranch hands have the same attitude, they still happen to come to the house, super romantic. In our Danish relationship, they - in the company of my children - would immediately be arrested for pedophilia. My teenage daughter was subjected to a very brief approach from an unknown teenager who "blow hearts" in her head and voupti, they had full romance. This despite the fact that she was not attracted to girls. While this setting pretty much removes the daily flirting, it's obviously such an important part of EA's approach to sex/love that it can't be removed. I am full of wonder and contempt for this attitude. I know there are children up to the age of 11-12 who play SIMS. I don't understand it not being stopped.
Ugh, yes! It's super annoying. My married couple moved in, their neighbors Eliza and Bob Pancakes came in the welcome wagon and at no time at all my sim was autonomously flirting with Bob in front of Eliza and her own husband! Like for one second when I don't babysit their conversation, they flirt and suddenly the spouses are super hurt and angry and have negative sentiments and it's all so so annoying as I didn't intend any of it at all. Makes simple conversations with taken sims so difficult! And this is a relatively new bug for me, I haven't had this problem always.
