Product: The Sims 4Platform: Xbox OneWhich language are you playing the game in? EnglishHow often does the bug occur? Often (50% - 99%)What is your current game version number? SDX 9.0 / 1.61 / latest versionWhat expansions, game packs, and stuff packs do you have installed? Dine out, city living, spooky, spa, gtw, seasons, cool kitchen, outdoor retreat Steps: How can we find the bug ourselves? Try to complete the want, “Ask [sim name] to be boyfriend.” 100 reward points. In my case, we went to the romance festival. Got super flirty. Eventually kissed. Then asked sim to be boyfriend. Nothing happened. Made them woohoo still nothing happened. It only changed (the want) after she went to sleep and woke up the next day. No points were added. Also, I had it pinned and unpinned it and it still wouldn’t go away. What happens when the bug occurs? Sim completed the action requested but the want bubble still remains and no rewards points are added. What do you expect to see? The action be marked as completed, points earned, and the bubble to go away. Have you installed any customization with the game, e.g. Custom Content or Mods? Never used - consoleDid this issue appear after a specific patch or change you made to your system? YesPlease describe the patch or change you made. After the high school years patch came out. Edit By Crinrict: Added Tag to Title

I had the same issue when my Sim asked another Sim to be his girlfriend at the Romance Festival. I play on PC and use a handful of mods, so I thought it might have been mod-related, but if it's happening on console too, obviously not.

@MzMelonz For me it happens with every Relationship related Wants, for example: Becoming friends (most of time it doesn't complete), Get Engaded, Get Married, etc.

@crinrict Mine happened on my sims home lot

Had the same issue as well. Also on Xbox One. I managed to get rid of it by playing another household but I'm confused why it didn't complete.

@MzMelonz Did you test if it works if you ask them on a different place than the romance festival ? Just curious if it's tied to that or not.(also on a personal note. Thank you for this thorough report. and just making it about one want. Helps a lot)@Squealymealy Did you also do it at the romance restaurant

[OPEN] Want Not Completed - Ask to be Boyfriend

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Squealymealy
Seasoned Vanguard
3 years ago
Had the same issue as well. Also on Xbox One. I managed to get rid of it by playing another household but I'm confused why it didn't complete.
bluespecter
3 years ago
I had the same issue when my Sim asked another Sim to be his girlfriend at the Romance Festival. I play on PC and use a handful of mods, so I thought it might have been mod-related, but if it's happening on console too, obviously not.
crinrict
Hero+
3 years ago
@MzMelonz Did you test if it works if you ask them on a different place than the romance festival ? Just curious if it's tied to that or not.

(also on a personal note. Thank you for this thorough report. and just making it about one want. Helps a lot)

@Squealymealy Did you also do it at the romance restaurant
Squealymealy
Seasoned Vanguard
3 years ago
@crinrict Mine happened on my sims home lot
crinrict
Hero+
3 years ago
@Squealymealy Thanks for confirming.
Csabuszkah
New Scout
3 years ago
@MzMelonz For me it happens with every Relationship related Wants, for example: Becoming friends (most of time it doesn't complete), Get Engaded, Get Married, etc.
MzMelonz
Seasoned Ace
3 years ago
@crinrict No problem! I saw you ask someone to do that on another post. When I get an opportunity, I will try to see if it still does this outside of the Romance Festival.
7xxnii0rb2la
3 years ago
I had this problem with an ask to be boyfriend one not a relative f9or the record as I've been able to doge the incest bug so far.
svend1928
Seasoned Ace
3 years ago
Yes, the wish to ask to go steady remain after it has been granted and sim is going steady with the sim in question. Later they want to break up or get merried.
If the wish is not granted they want to talk to or flirt to someone they know and are not friends with or a friend and get first kiss and ask to go steady. etc.
Ingame experience right now. Sim asked Tina Tinker to go steady and she accepted. They both fall in love and get flirty in each other's precense. The next day my sim wants to break up, claiming they have not feelings for Tina anymore. They meet up and they are both flirty, cause of each other.
aribeat
New Scout
3 years ago
I am currently playing in a testsave without Mods/CC (trying to reproduce another bug; pulled the localthumbcache before creating a new vanilla save). My Sim wanted to ask another Sim to be her girlfriend. They were on their homelot. Want still did not complete. Hope my info helps!