Re: [NOT BUG] NPC initiated dates are almost always unsuccessful
Sorry if I misunderstood you but it sounded like the going to the bathroom took a long time because you having issues with bystanders but reading your post again it said: AND without correlation between the bystanders and the bathroom visit.
I agree that this sounds very needy.
This was the original thread: http://answers.ea.com/t5/The-Sims-4-Bug-Reports/FIXED-NPC-Social-Events-always-end-badly/m-p/4545434#M13026 on the issue. You never have a counter if you get invited which make sense, as you shouldn't have to do stuff as YOU get invited.
There should may be no classification for dates if you get invited as for the rest of the social events.
It's a bit hard to get an invitation triggered so I can't really try this until I get one.
I'll add it for now but changed your title to better reflect the issue.