System isnt recognizing my engaged sims

• So yes to clarify my engaged sims can enlope/marry though i noticed with the inactive households their relationship is acquaintance there is no romantic relationship level but I can still make them enlope.
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• I've started up a new world with NO mod (as previously I had them disabled but I was using the current world that having issue). I created two sim who had no connection had them build their relationship to dating then engaged but same thing happens I am unable to go to edit household mode and make them married.

Also I noticed this is happening with every relation type married/family so this isn't happening with just engaged like I though

I have cheats enable so I should have the option to completely change their relationship

• Another thing is when I go to cas and place the engaged couples from the library I am able to change them to household members from there I would place them on a lot then go to edit household mode where I have the ability to completely edit their relationship make them married or siblings I would make them engaged again then the same thing happen the system doesn't recognize it. As for the using mccc to delete their relationship and going through the process of developing their relationship and then making them bf/gf then engaged after they are engaged same thing happens
• I don't know if this help any I think I will just have to go and play all of my unplanned household and make them enlope.
  

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  @amjoie