Hey I just got over breast cancer hence the avi and the pink stands for cure for breast cancer, so anytime I see pink right away I think cure for breast cancer, so it is a representation of cure for cancer in addition to the old assignment of colors for gender. I think that anyone thinking color as a means of signalling out anyone or anything has some problem within themselves. I do not judge others by color or by sexual preference or any other means, I judge them by the way they treat me. So, that said, I hope you realize this is jealousy pure and simple. Go about your day and know that petty people will get their due. Karma can suck. What goes around comes around.
Now for your other problem, I am praying and hoping that you find some sort of closure soon. Hope it comforts your soul. We all have to walk our life's path, we can't change it, we just have to work with it, so whatever happens I wish your soul peace.
