Thank you and that's sage advice. I did end up rolling back to the Thursday before Fall begins, since as you may have read in my post to @Elluplluellu, I forgot to send Erik to the award show . . . OI! I'm also seeing this as a possible fix it before it got broke moment. If the choice comes up again to select their relationship as difficult, I will definitely hit NO. Too much to deal with, even for me. I have five college students, and two adults seeking the Noble Career, plus Erik doing the same. Although it's good for me to get out of my comfort zone, this is proving harder than I thought. (Having the kids dorm at home with all of the distractions.)