Funerals, please! And graveyards!

As I said in my other thread. I just want to know where the Sims died and where their urns are so that I can put them in the family graveyard on my cemetary lot. I play rotationally with ageing on and I can find the elders dead and no urns or gravestones to be found on their lot when I go back to them again. This becomes a huge problem when playing and building up a Save over several months or years.

It could be that Graveyards and most of the above wants might come in a Supernatural pack. I hope so anyway.