The Kindness Bench for SimLit Writers - For All Games!

Let's see.... since this is a Writers' kindness bench, I'm wondering if we could shift to looking at how these kinds of interpersonal dynamics might relate to our writing....

Here's a question for everyone!

How have you taken an interpersonal conflict, complaint, or disharmony and used it in your writing?

What was that experience like for you? Did it help you to come to new understanding?