"BabyDollAnne;15177116" wrote:
*sigh* so... just, generally.. I feel like nobody likes me. I try to get conversation going in a slack group i'm in for simblr but they all seem to just.. dislike me.
I feel really unliked, I know it is because i'm opinionated but I'm not mentally capable of explaining myself/my opinions and I just generally feel like crappola.
Hi, Anne! I like you a lot! It's really late where I am, and I'm just getting ready to go to sleep... before I do, I wanted to let you know that I like you a lot.
Sometimes, when it seems like others don't like us, it's just our fears, more than the actuality of the situation. (At least that's my experience...) And when it comes to having folks like us, it can be really useful when we share our opinions--that way, there's an actual person to like! Those who always keep their opinions to themselves or who don't really seem to have opinions, well, when they're liked, it sometimes seems that it's not them who's liked--for nobody gets to actually know them!
When you share your opinions, then people know who you are, so when they like you, they like YOU, not some pretend version of you...
I hope you feel better soon, and I hope that you can know that since I like you, then there's one person who likes you! And if one person likes you, you can bet that more do, too! Because I always discover that whatever I like, at least five people like it, too... and sometimes ten or more do! So, you've got lots of people who like you!
Even if you can't FEEL that we like you at this very moment, I hope you can believe that we like you. And if you believe it, the feelings will follow, and then, you'll feel better!
Goodnight from my side of the world! Feel better!
