Every time I see "Schedule a date"

"Ashcarr;12830793" wrote:

"enkeli63;12830778" wrote:
While I love spontaneous dates and parties, I'd like to be able to arrange them in advance as well. This should even give you a "bonus" for certain formal party types, such as weddings and dinner parties. It's not fair to deprive your friends of the chance to be at and brag about witnessing the wedding of the century just because you didn't have a chance to tell them your plans even an hour ahead of time!!

I was going to say it's totally not fair to the bridesmaids either since you give them no time to afford their dress. Then inspiration kicked in and I was like, "Wait a minute! We can't even have bridesmaids!" We should definitely be able to assign sims as bridesmaids and groomsmen or ask them with a chance at rejection based off how close of friends the two sims are. At the very least a Maid of Honor and Best Man so they can hand the rings over during the ceremony.

I hope they'll add that to our wedding parties. I heard they're thinking of increasing the number of BFFs a sim could have, and that would be a perfect mechanic to use for this.

In many cases, the sim is getting married to one of their BFFs, but say they have a few more. They could pick one of those to be the Esteemed BFF, while the others would just be BFFs. This would take the place of Best Man/Maid of Honour and Bridesmaids, so it could work nicely with non-traditional weddings as well. This would allow a lady sim to have her Esteemed BFF be a male friend, while her other BFFs in the ceremony could all be ladies. The flexibility would be very inclusive and AWESOME B)