Options with Toddler when both parents are working?

Mmm.
If you hire a nanny, do you get to stay behind (as the player) and watch what is happening? Would you be able to get a skilled toddler to ask for food and such? (I've heard some/most of the nannies are really bad at their jobs).


I imagine the rabbit hole option is much like when the adults go to work or the children to school? A placeholder and not much more, without ability to really fill needs much less raise skills etc?