child sims character values reset every time the game opens and closes

@marebearexe One way to cut back load times is to turn off showing the CC/mod list on startup. It's in Game Options.

Sometimes having a lot of duplicates can slow down loading too. If you ever want a look through your mod list for some tips on what you could do to shorten it, How to Use Mods and CC has instructions on how to make a list that you can post here.