Declare date friendly glitch

I am having an issue and hoping someone has an answer to fix this.

I just started playing sims after the new update again and everytime I try any romantic option with my sim I come across this. I’ve tried to change setting in and in RPO global settings. I also disabled attraction and it’s still happening. There haven't been any dates involved, I don’t have the lovestruck expansion. 

Backstory I use Nisa’s content for my female sim and the action doesn’t show up due to not being able to have any romantic involvement with someone that isn’t an exclusive relationship. Before the update today it was fine, now it’s not. I thought maybe it was a problem with mods, but I got my guy sim to try and have any woohoo content or romance interaction, for example the neighbour, just to see and he has the same thing. I can’t even use the fun or joke interactions. They’re greyed out also. I have tried many manners of repairing, deleting and fixing and nothing is working. I’m convinced it’s an error due to the update now. My sim was escort that could woohoo whomever, whenever and now she can’t. It just keeps saying that my sim has declared that this date be friendly only. But none of my sims are even on dates nor have they ever been so I’m not sure what’s happening but would really love it fixed! 

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