Frustrated Simmer

I am beyond frustrated. My sims aren’t eating and my game is EXTREMELY LAGGY.

I have a large cc folder but my game has never ever ever lagged as much as it is now. I have 173 GB available on my laptop which I feel is a suitable amount to play with.

and ever since installing high school years my sims will not eat. I removed mods and that fixed the issue. So I slowly made folders of mods to test it out and I cannot find the culprit.

please someone help so I can returning to simming