Is this happening with only one household or others?
it's All my households.
Can you take a screenshot of the traits, likes/dislikes, of the household members?
Done.
If it's just on one lot, what are the lot traits?
Picture taken.
A friend also said in some cases removing the likes from the household members may help.
Is it happening in all worlds?
yes.
Do you have the Eco Lifestyle pack?
yes.
Did you try opening the specific game save you're having the issue with then going to Game Options > Pack Settings > Eco Lifestyle then make sure the settings are unchecked as follows. If they were checked then uncheck them, click the 'apply settings' button, then save your game, close the game, and restart and see if the issue is still there.
@VictoriasUnknown Thank you for the reply and screenshots. I was chatting with a friend who pointed out that a couple of the traits you have on your Sim in the screenshot are from Eco Lifestyle but are roles that only NPC Sims are assigned (by the game), not played/your Sims. These roles are 'Master Crafter' and 'Eco Master'... and the Eco Master is supposed to be on an NPC description is only “they can inspire other sims to be eco conscious”. I am told that the only way that these roles and can only be added to a played Sim is with debug cheats.
With that in mind, did you use debug cheats or a Mod to add any of these traits? If so, removing these could be something to test. My friend also pointed out that if you added traits via a Mod, removing the Mod to test may or may not remove the trait(s) from the Sim that was already added. Obviously if these traits were added via a cheat it would also not be removed with the Mod removal tests.
If any of those factors were the issue and the behaviors came after a game update, it could be that a change that came in the game's code/functions with the new update is conflicting with a cheat or Mod effect.
Do you see the issue if you play a new vanilla (no Mods, CC, cheats, etc.) save in your game - using a family that does not have these or extra traits added? When you test in this new save please also remove the cache file as mentioned in this spoiler tag:
Exit the game. Move the Mods folder from your "The Sims 4" folder [Documents > Electronic Arts > The Sims 4] to your desktop (save it for reference) and delete the localthumbcache.package file in your “The Sims 4” folder. Then check in a new game save to see if this issue is still occurring. You can then test without saving – or in a new vanilla game save – in order to identify which CC/Mods are causing the issue. Then remove or add updated version(s) of the Mod/CC causing the issue.
I don't use these traits, I would assume ones like 'collector', 'treasure hunter', 'mystical sensing', and 'kleptomaniac' could have potential for some 'stuff seeking' behavior, but I tend to doubt they would seek it in the trash, and even if any of them did, I doubt all your Sims have these same trait(s).
i used debug cheats to add them, i do that on all my households, I'll remove them and see if that fixes the glitch, thank you and thank your friend for me, I'll be right back lol