Sims 4 growing together makes my game stuck after minutes of playing and then cr

OK this may help, or not. The game is stuck trying to give the needs commands. I'm doing aspirations on the kids ATM. The response is instantaneous, it's the needs like a shower, or drawing in aspirations that did get stuck. I'm trying to rewards my way out of it on most needs. You can plain disable them too, till this is fixed. Might help others just trying to enjoy the game. Plus is it me, or do needs decay way faster ATM also? Might be lack of response to them instead, but it seems like even after they slept, bam, out of energy the next minute. It all got ridiculous last night. ATM it's like the game is 100% normal. I just don't know. Random things like reloading causing it to get fixed. BTW moving out and into another lot caused the save to be ruined. I had to go to load and recover it. That may have helped the game to run better too I guess.