Unable to load into resturant date

Hi, ive been trying all day to get my sim to go on a date and it does not work at all. I'm not sure if it's some directx11 issue, corruption issue or mod issue. I've updated pretty much all of my mods and deleted plenty of them. Right now the only BE exception i get, is tunable_perf (which i have been getting since the lovestruck update).

At first i got the "cant load into household error code" Then i managed to removed the pop up. I've gone through plenty of mods, but now stuck on theloading screen. I'll put a picture of the date beginning pop up thing. (Side note: i do have some ui mod is messing it up, i do not!! have a single clue of what mod it could be though)

I have not tried to load it without mods cause the thought of loading up my unplayable sims makes me wanna shed a tear.

Please help me