Why are all of my Sims CONSTANTLY being rude?

I've got some mods too (Like Slice of life) and I have this problem in every save flie and family, my sims have the best conversations and then just randomly start being mean to each other. I saw that yters like Simfinity (German yter) has this problem too. (She uses also Slice of Life) So idk ,_, maybe its bc slice of life? I tryed to delete it but idk why it didnt worked haha- well ya idk

I've been experiencing the same thing as you and it has been happening ever since I got the slice of life mod. I looked into the slice of life mod and then went to the personality pack and I saw this... I hope that you can see the image but it says "Adds a hidden toxic buff/moodlet that allows that sim to start fights for no reason, insult their lovers, and talk down o people. This can be removed by going into the "control panel" under the slice of life menu." I hope this helps, but yes the personality pack in the slice of life mod is the reason for why your sims keep doing mean/rude interactions.

@meerriegel Hello!!! I had the same problem and the reason for why this is happening is because of the personality pack in the slice of life mod. I looked at the personality pack on kawaiistacie's website and saw "Adds a hidden toxic buff/moodlet that allows that sim to start fights for no reason, insult their lovers, and talk down o people. This can be removed by going into the "control panel". Anyways that's all I know and I hope this helps!!! 

I'm also having problem I have the slice of life mod so I think thats the problem

Any chance you can give the instructions to get to the control panel? I've checked this post like 3 times to see what I was missing because I can't find where to remove toxicness. TIA!

I've got the same issue! I've got no option to remove this hidden trait in the SOL control panel/menu which is really annoying. I've ended up removing the personality mod because my female sim wouldn't stop being mean to her new husband but I really want to keep it in

Sorry I couldn't reply sooner but I'm going to just answer anyway in case someone else is curious about how to solve this. So I was also trying to find a control panel but I couldn't find one so instead I just deleted the personality folder out of my SOL folder. That seems to be the only solution as far as I know or there could be a specific file to delete in the personality folder that has the hidden toxic buff, so basically, you could try and test out and see which file is causing the toxic buff. Hopefully this helped!!!