MY SIMS WONT TAKE CARE OF TODDLERS

@sinthesinner1 
Toddlers can be tricky to manage. Often times multiple Sims in the household want to interact with them at the same time.
Assuming there is not interference with mods/cc here is something I have done in my game.
When I need someone to interact with the toddler I will pause and assign tasks to other controllable Sims in the household.
Have them read books, take a shower or go jogging etc.
That should help get the task done to care for the toddler.
If you do have any kind of mod or cc in your game try removing (not disabling) them and delete the localthumbcache.package and any other cache files.
Test the game to see if the issues are still there. 
Testing on a vanilla (no mods/cc) folder is the best way to investigate causes of issues.
Instructions are in the link below:
Troubleshooting tips
https://answers.ea.com/t5/Technical-Issues-PC/READ-FIRST-Troubleshooting-your-Game/m-p/3621199

- EQ Avid Sims Player
Game Version 1.55.108.1020 Patch 17Sept2019
All content installed thru Realm Of Magic
PC / Win 10
Never used CC or mods.