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sims 4 infinite loading when saving (steam auto cloud file)
My game first started doing this when steam decided it NEEDED to update while I was still playing freezing my game, every time this happens a steam auto cloud file shows up with date of the freeze an...
FIXED! turn of DX11 in your game options if you have this issue, I can't believe EA would auto turn on a game breaking feature without any warning that it may (greatly catastrophically) effect the game, It would have saved me a lot of lost progress if a popup had told about this upon launching the game.
