sims 4 stuck on household loading screen

@MyraTyra13  There has been another patch since you last posted, and the mods that were fully up to date on Sunday may be incompatible now.  So please check the download pages of your mods for updates confirmed to work with patch 1.69.

If this isn't the issue, please remove your Mods folder, delete localthumbcache.package, load the game to the Main Menu to create a new Mods folder, and add back just one mod that's confirmed to be updated.  Let me know whether you can still load your save.  You can quit without saving, so the game doesn't save without the rest of your mods present; this is just for testing.