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caprice812
11 years agoSeasoned Ace
"DerekJohnson;12983449" wrote:
Me and the love of my life have broken up, just before our wedding. No one did anything terribly wrong... We just changed and grew apart. Planning a wedding and, more importantly, a married life, may teach a couple love is not enough.
I understand that is not as serious and sad as what other people are going through. I may look like a very weak person now. The fact is, however, that I am crying a lot. It feels like the life I had in mind has fallen apart.
I apologise if it sounds like I am overreacting over nothing. But to me it is devastatingly sad..
My heart goes out to you! Some people do grow apart and I think it was meant to be for you two not to go on with the wedding.
I am not being mean, but I do believe there is a reason for everything in life even though we may not ever understand it. Sometimes later down the road a light bulb might come on and you realize why things didn't happen and then your mouth drops open in amazement. Some things you may never know and that's ok too.
Its ok to cry! Your life is still there, its just waiting, but you will go on! Stronger and wiser!
*Hugs*