you can't control the kids either? yeah that is a huge disappointment. i was eagerly awaiting the toddler to age up since i can't control him. and yeah i was like screw that toddler bed for 140 sim bucks. nope. I'll work on getting the kid bed, but since i can't control the kid i probably won't even bother, because he's not going to use it, like i see the toddler barely using the toy box. i'm seeing that this game is more about young adults. who can't even interact unless you tell them to do so. i've been enjoying it for what little time i play. i was hoping for a more similar experience to the computer game since they are sharing the same resources but i can see clearly that isn't happening.